few centuries ago a famous Greek thinker said
'The only constant is that we live in a world of changes' paradox
What truth? The world that we live is one in which everything is changing at a speed we can hardly achieve. The ways to buy, produce, organize for success, distribute, advertise and sell are changing and becoming a higher speed. Probably the main answer to both impressive change is the advancement of technology, especially in two areas: information technology and telecommunications. But how to prepare our children so they can become better citizens of the world?
Below I summarize a message I received a few weeks ago a good friend.
We must prepare our children for the world of the future, not our parents' world and ours. In today the decisive factor for success will be the character, not just knowledge, as many might believe. Having temple, out of failure properly to challenge the failures and not a tragedy ... that is what recruiters look
For freelancers will be a self requirement. A son forge
character if clearly perceived parental authority. With the presence of children and youth authority to act with authority in turn to solve their problems, act on findings. Authority without the presence of our children will be weak in character and act on impulse with subsequent adjustment problems
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Excess of authority? Excess is always better to lack of authority. The limit of authority is provided by the following rule: 'The state should not humiliate. " Basically which is the child or young adult today will be tomorrow. Occasionally you have to look at the child as an adult potential.
Do we want our children do not suffer? So we must prepare to suffer. ELECTED We can not all the time avoiding any possible suffering "if not when will you learn? You must understand death, life problems, problems in dealing with their fellows. We should not
solve all problems, we must help them to gradually solve themselves. No goals achieved lasting success without a little suffering. Does anyone imagine a champion athlete who does not suffer to achieve their brands? This applies to all types of champion and all types of activity. Always think in part we do not want them to suffer for not suffering us, but they do damage for the future.
must be taught to make additional efforts. Let them know that you can always a little more. Remember that no one collects the crop planted many seeds and pay a lot of land.
is very important to teach lacking, ie to 'feel the lack of' and fend for themselves. There are kids who do not play their sport if they have no shoes 'brand'. If you learn to lack not learn to get by. Although we have to give 100%, boys must know the value of things. If they do boys, will be very difficult
adult and there he will suffer and we with them too. How do we teach them to lack? Giving a little less than what they need! There is no other way! If not, how do feel the lack of? They learn to appreciate what they have. Learn not to be ungrateful. Learn to enjoy life because they often enjoys the simple things. Learn not to be complainers.
An excellent school to learn to not have (without dying in the attempt) is the table of the home, food. What should we feed them? What we decide is good for them! It is not only for their own good stomach, but is an excellent way to learn to lack, not ungrateful, non-complainers. "Mami ... I do not like lentils. " If
want to make a good life, give them the lentils. Tantrums will not exalt (authority is not yelling), not if she does not want, but when you catch your hunger: SURPRISE! ... Lentils heated cooler!
seems incredible, but if we do this sort of thing can not be adapted. The food is lacking a good school, so it will not be picky in their social relationships, at work and in the real world.
must also educate them in the service. A normal family is a team with
few tasks: making beds, cleaning rooms, washing dishes, painting the house, etc. There have to educate them to perform household tasks, even if they do poorly at first. If they do this type of service then they will have problems. The major schools of leadership the world teach young people lack, so they know and understand the world and to lead.
countertops "? Which are a fixed amount, rather, weekly and less of what they believe they need. They learn to manage money. Clear that exceptions should be accepted, but talks quietly.
children build fighters, not wimps overprotected. That is beyond themselves. Take problems as challenges for improvement. Remember that no height reaches
with a single flight. It should also be excited about ideals, future goals, dreams to be good at heart. Is also important to be convinced that winning does not equal 'money or property', winners are those who are happy with what they do with their lives. Only then will make others happy.
Children with mild nature, lack knowledge, trained in the service and full of love and dreams will be children winners.
Parents have the great responsibility of raising children to transform our country, one where freedom prevails, wealth, justice and above all happiness.
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